Happy Diwali !

Wish you and your families a very happy Deepavali or Diwali as it has been known in most parts of the world. This year indeed has been bitter-sweet for all of us. We are the generation of humans experiencing one of the most dangerous pandemics in the history that has essentially threatened our way of life. When we look at the news today – as well as events and incidents in our own lives – we often find darkness surrounding us. But the human race has endured far worse pandemics; Nazism, British Rule, Plagues and Flu to name a few but never lost hope and came out of each one of them even stronger.

We may be going through difficulties in our relationships, we may be having financial difficulties, or we may be dealing with an illness that seems insurmountable. In life, we are faced with numerous challenges. We may experience some dark patches. But we do not have to be blinded by the darkness. It is at these times that we turn to the teachings of saints and mystics to find answers and solace.

These teachings are not meant for the world and humanity to just magically prevail over darkness but give strength to endure. It is important to understand that “Darkness is inevitable; to accept the dark days calmly self-dependence is the only way in darkness. One has to keep walking to cross the dark times.”

           

This is where the true spirit of Diwali teaches us to symbolically light the lamps on our own to fight the darkness. It is said that when Lord Rama returned to Ayodhya after defeating Ravana all the people in Ayodhya came together to light the darkness in the society. They had lit the lamps outside their homes, to ensure that cumulative light quashes darkness from all sides, thus conveying lord Rama that they, his people, have learnt the way to be together in tough times, irrespective of their individual differences. The society as a whole had learnt to identify the dark spots that lied within and take necessary actions to nullify that darkness which was symbolized through lighting of lamps.

Whatever you may hear or see, Diwali the festival is not religious from any perspective. It is that time of that year when you celebrate each and every part of your life and don't have to resort to any religious teachings or regulations. It depends on what part of the country you come from as interpretations and observances differ slightly but, in my state, and community, we celebrate Diwali over 4 days.

1st day (called Narak Chaturdashi) symbolizes prevalence of light over darkness and the importance of self. You are expected to start the day in the early hours of the morning before sunrise, by treating yourself to a relaxing massage followed by luxurious bath. The whole day is nothing but fun and quality time with your family and friends accompanied by various delicious foods and drinks.

2nd day (called Laxmi Poojan) symbolizes meaning of ‘money’ and ‘wealth’ in your life. It teaches us that although money is not everything it certainly has its place and deserves due importance in your life.

3rd day (called Paadava or Govardhan Pooja) celebrates one of the most important relationship between husband and wife. This day also celebrates the relationship of man and the nature. Each person is expected to never forget the partners in his/her life i.e. the spouse and nature.  

4th day (called Bhaubeej or Bhaidooj) celebrates the loving relationship of brother and sister. It is on this day every brother renews his vow to love and protect his sister for rest of his life. This day is not only the celebration of brother-sister relationship but of the womanhood; the sacred feminine.

I wish you all a very happy Diwali and a prosperous and healthy year ahead!!